Unbecoming

Hosted by @hairzillaa (aka your favorite beauty industry disruptor turned certified NLP coach Laura Frazier), Unbecoming is a real-talk, inner-shift kind of podcast for people who are done performing and ready to reclaim.

We use story, science, and spiritual sauce to help you break free from old patterns, unlearn the noise, and step into the version of you that’s always been there — underneath it all.

Each week, I’m bringing you the lessons I’ve learned from two decades behind the chair as a nationally recognized Redken artist, salon owner, creative coach, and trauma-informed practitioner. With certifications in NLP, Timeline Therapy, hypnosis, and a whole lot of life experience growing up in chaos and healing through wellness, I’ve made it my mission to help other creatives regulate their nervous systems, build wealth with intention, and stop waiting for permission to evolve.

Along for the ride is my close friend and co-host on many episodes, Chris — a Charleston-based therapist, educator, and small business owner. Chris is that rare blend of sharp clinical insight and deep empathy. With over 15 years of experience helping adults and couples through trauma, identity shifts, and big transitions, he brings tools like EMDR, IFS, CBT, and inner child work into our conversations that make healing feel human (and sometimes hilarious).

Together, we riff, rant, and reflect on the big themes: identity, burnout, attachment, creativity, worthiness, money, and how to actually feel safe being seen in your fullness. You’ll leave each episode with a mindset shift, a tool to try, or the feeling that someone finally said the thing out loud.

This is the space where your next level self gets activated — not by becoming more…
but by unbecoming everything you’re not.

• No. of episodes: 59
• Latest episode: 2025-06-01
• Arts Health & Fitness Fashion & Beauty Mental Health

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