Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell

Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)

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Episodes

Episode 525: Communication Confusion

2025-01-06

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to have emotional and introspective conversations with her partner but he doesn't seem to be able to. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 524: Super Avoidant Attachment Girl

2025-01-03

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who isn't sure if she wants to break up with her boyfriend or if it's just her avoidant attachment style. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 523: Honestly, I'm Leading Myself On

2025-01-01

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is looking for permission to end her unavailable, long-distance situationship. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 522: The Orgasm Gap

2024-12-30

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is scared to talk to her boyfriend about her ability to orgasm. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 521: Am I Being Mistreated Or Am I Just Too Sensitive?

2024-12-20

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if she is being mistreated in her exhausting relationship or if she is just too sensitive. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 520: This Sounds Like a Christmas Movie

2024-12-18

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is going on a Christmas trip with his friend who he is also maybe in love with. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 519: My Toxic Ex Still Owes Me Money

2024-12-16

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who took on a large amount of debt with her toxic ex. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 518: Can't Unhear The Mean Things You Said

2024-12-13

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is struggling to forget the cruel things their partner said. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 517: Who Has This Strap On Been In Before?

2024-12-11

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who can't stop getting upset when they think about their partner's past sex life. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 516: You Can't Grow a Relationship In Resentful Soil

2024-12-09

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is resenting her boyfriend of 5 years. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 515: Remembering The Reality, Not Just The Romance

2024-12-06

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who can't stop thinking about getting back together with his cheating ex. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 514: What To Do With A Professional Crush

2024-12-04

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has a crush on their professional colleague/friend (while being happily married). Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 513: Learn This Lesson Now

2024-12-02

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend "loses his self control" when his ex-girlfriend comes back into his life. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 512: My Boyfriend Cheated And My President Is A Rapist

2024-11-29

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering how she will ever trust men again after being betrayed by yet another one. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 511: Queerness Is Not A Monolith

2024-11-27

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is struggling to reconcile the fact that her first queer relationship was also her first toxic one. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 510: Do You Like Emo...tions?

2024-11-25

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose ex-best friend is applying to work at her job. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 509: Sharing A Business With Your Cheating Ex

2024-11-22

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who was cheated on by her long-term romantic and business partner. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 508: Don't Over-Romanticize Your Ex

2024-11-20

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who broke up with her partner and now is contemplating getting back together. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 507: You Can't Be Everything To Everyone

2024-11-18

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who asked for what she needed from her friend...and her friend said no. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 506: Holding The Good With The Bad

2024-11-15

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if it's possible to hold onto the good parts of a painful relationship. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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