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50 - Open Relationships, Fidelity, and Leaving Toxic Situations

50 - Open Relationships, Fidelity, and Leaving Toxic Situations

Drinks First · 2023-11-28
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This week, my guest (F, 36, Fresh Meadows, Straight) and I discuss open relationships, loyalty and fidelity, biological clocks, dating older men, and how to recognize and remove yourself from a toxic situation.

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A dating podcast about NYC's kinda eligible.If interested in matching with a podcast guest/ have any feedback please DM @drinks.first on instagram or email drinksfirstpodcast@gmail.com. You can find the matching form on flow.page/drinksfirst.

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50 - Open Relationships, Fidelity, and Leaving Toxic Situations

50 - Open Relationships, Fidelity, and Leaving Toxic Situations

2023-11-28

This week, my guest (F, 36, Fresh Meadows, Straight) and I discuss open relationships, loyalty and fidelity, biological clocks, dating older men, and how to recognize and remove yourself from a toxic situation.

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57:15
49 - Monetizing Content Creation, Pros of Long Distance, Dating Sober

49 - Monetizing Content Creation, Pros of Long Distance, Dating Sober

2023-11-21

This week, my guest (M, 31, Straight, Soho) chat about monetizing content creation, having kids, meeting people on Raya, pros of long distance, communication methods, being sober, and bad first dates.

01:12:41
48 - Small Town USA, Indigenous Identity, and COVID Weddings

48 - Small Town USA, Indigenous Identity, and COVID Weddings

2023-11-14

This week, my guest (F, 27, Straight, Greenpoint) and I talk about growing up in a small southern town, pride in native identity from an early age, storytelling, COVID, and breakups.

49:33
47- East Coast vs West Coast Dating, DJing, and Rizz

47- East Coast vs West Coast Dating, DJing, and Rizz

2023-11-07

This week, my guest (M, 25, Williamsburg, Straight) and I discuss dating on the east coast vs the west coast, trusting your gut when it comes to dating, lounge bars, DJing in NYC, and rizz.

56:34
46 - Entrepreneurship, Going No-Contact, and Second Date in Paris

46 - Entrepreneurship, Going No-Contact, and Second Date in Paris

2023-10-31

This week, I speak with our guest (F, 23, Hudson Yards, Straight) about starting her own businesses, accessibility, break ups, and unique dates.

59:40
45 - My Ex's Best Friend, 100 First Dates, Finding "The Spark"

45 - My Ex's Best Friend, 100 First Dates, Finding "The Spark"

2023-10-24

On this week’s episode, I have a candid chat with my ex-boyfriend’s best friend (M, 26, Bed-Stuy, Queer) about weird dates, trying new things in dating, “the spark,” and his year of rest and relaxation.

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01:03:34
44 - A Solo Episode with Ariana!

44 - A Solo Episode with Ariana!

2023-10-17

This week, I wanted you guys to get to know a little bit more about me! Ariana - 26, F, Straight, Greenwich Village. Listen in to hear more about my upbringing, my career, my past relationships, and entering my single girl era.

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46:40
43 - Peacefully Single v.s. Painfully Single, Learning How to Ride a Bike, and Short Girls

43 - Peacefully Single v.s. Painfully Single, Learning How to Ride a Bike, and Short Girls

2023-10-10

This week, our guest (M, 27, Straight, Flatiron) and I talk about balance in a healthy lifestyle, being peacefully single versus painfully single, long distance relationships, learning how to ride a bike, short girls, speed dating, and more.

01:06:33
42 - NYC Schooling, Working in Fashion, and Situationships

42 - NYC Schooling, Working in Fashion, and Situationships

2023-10-03

This week, my guest and I (F, 27, Straight, Tribeca) talk about growing up and going to school in the city, uncommon jobs, how everyone can up their fashion game, drunk texting, and situationships.

01:13:07
41 - UWS v.s. Brooklyn, Dating in Europe, and Dinner Over Drinks

41 - UWS v.s. Brooklyn, Dating in Europe, and Dinner Over Drinks

2023-09-26

This week our guest (M, Gay, 23, Upper West Side) joins us from his summer vacation! Listen in as we chat about the pros and cons of living on the Upper West Side, changing career paths, and dating people from around the world.

01:17:56
40 - Quarter Life Crises, Intentional Dating, and Being Good in Bed

40 - Quarter Life Crises, Intentional Dating, and Being Good in Bed

2023-09-19

This week our guest (F, 27, Bi, Nolita) and I talk about how dating changes after 25, which dating apps are worth our time, what makes someone good in bed, and giving people outside our norms a chance.

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01:02:11
39 - Career Changes, Transparency in Dating, and Kink Community

39 - Career Changes, Transparency in Dating, and Kink Community

2023-09-12

This week our guest (M, 26, Heteroflexible, Bed Stuy) and I speak about going to school in the Northeast, talking to our parents about dating, different dating apps, transparency in dating, the kink community, and taking up space in multiple ways at once.

01:06:39
38- Egg Freezing, Late Bloomers, 2 Factor Authentication

38- Egg Freezing, Late Bloomers, 2 Factor Authentication

2022-04-26

In our Season 3 Finale our guest (Female, Straight, 25, West Village) and I talk about everything! From losing her virginity in her senior year of college, how small NYC is for dating, putting herself out there in different ways, freezing her eggs, and so much more! I had such an amazing time recording this episode because it's always so rewarding having conversations about women's sexual health and pleasure- so I really hope you enjoy it as much as I did.

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01:04:47
37 - Greenwich Equinox, Dating a Look A Like, NYC Pride

37 - Greenwich Equinox, Dating a Look A Like, NYC Pride

2022-04-19

This week our guest (Male, Gay, 26, West Village) just moved to NYC permanently and is excited to tell us his stories. He gives us the low down on what actually happens at Equinox, the stereotype that Gay men date look-a-likes, his best and worst date stories, his eclectic mother, and so much more!

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55:10
36 - Toxic Relationships, Sugar Babying, Playing Men

36 - Toxic Relationships, Sugar Babying, Playing Men

2022-04-12

In this weeks episode our guest (Female, Bisexual, 25, Harlem) and I go deep. She has been a friend of mine for over a decade, and we touch on all things from our high school antics, her toxic relationships, thoughts on monogamy, sugar babying, how to play men, discovering her sexuality, and so much more!

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01:02:21
35 - Feral Boy Summer, NYC Women, Men's DMs

35 - Feral Boy Summer, NYC Women, Men's DMs

2022-04-05

Come join me and my new friend (Male, 27, Crown Heights, Straight) as we talk about finding friends in NYC, the internet, NYC women, Men's DMs, Feral Boy Summer, the midwest, the importance of friends in relationships, and more.

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01:10:04
34 - 30 Year Age Gap, Scarcity Mindset, SF vs. NYC

34 - 30 Year Age Gap, Scarcity Mindset, SF vs. NYC

2022-03-29

In this weeks episode our guest (Female, Pansexual, 24, Manhattan) and I talk about everything! From "reverse" coming out, being in a relationship with her landlord who happened to be 30 years her senior, dating in SF vs. NYC, being a high achieving queer black woman in NYC, and so much more!

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57:02
33 - Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy, The Relationship Escalator

33 - Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy, The Relationship Escalator

2022-03-22

In my opinion, this is one of my most interesting and informative episodes to date. Our guest (Male, 30, Harlem, Pansexual) joins us to talk all things polyamory, ethnical non-monogamy, and truly helps us break down and see different ways of exploring relationship structures. We talk about his life growing up in small town Indiana, moving to NYC twice, working at a Michelin star restaurant to being in finance, meeting one of the loves of his life (and how he still sees other people while living with them), and so much more! I cannot express how great it was to have such an open conversation- and I hope you all enjoy challenging our notions of monogamy, relationships, and commitment as much as I did.

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55:35
32 - The Morning After, WLW, F*ckGirl Era

32 - The Morning After, WLW, F*ckGirl Era

2022-03-15

In this week's episode we connect with a good friend of mine (female, 25, queer, Bed-Stuy) and talk about being queer in the city, dating apps v.s. meet-cutes, funny first dates, morning after horror stories, her coming out experience, and more!

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51:35
31 - Dating with No Apps and No Social Media

31 - Dating with No Apps and No Social Media

2022-03-08

This week we are joined by one of my great friends (Male, Straight, 26, Midtown East). To all our female listeners, you cannot find a better guy. He works in finance, recently bought an apartment, loves dogs, and will be your next Offline Boyfriend. His only flaws, he's not a morning person, doesn't like Italian food, and doesn't like cats.

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